Does this happen to you?
This person looks at you with a dismay like they were hoping you were their best new friend but now it is all ruined

For me these bands include
Smashing Pumpkins
Radiohead
NIN
Chemlab
There are lots of others but these are the big ones for me. Or at least the ones that have been coming back to me the most over the years. Admittedly I was extremely late to NIN but it feels like a forever band. Sometimes I try to listen to some of the big influence bands and the sound just bounces off. It's like a band has to approach me at the exact right angle to slice through into my heart.
But then there are genres I go deep into. Electronic industrial and synthwave being examples. I never found shortages of bands that I could enjoy (or usually, at least a song or two), but again, to the heartbreak of some, not all. But falling in love with a genre is rarer yet than falling in love with a specific band.
I adore music.